But you have to improve your marriage behavior if you want success. The first reaction in your mind, when you make such a harsh threatening discovery is going to be self-protective, accompanied by fear; these are primal.
They are individuals, who you married, for better or worse, who succumbed to rampant temptations (not excusing them).
Second, it’s a mistake to take their actions as indictments about yourself.
Being divorced for several years, I have tried my hand at online dating, experimenting with a number of different sites, and I know from experience that for someone new to the process, it can be rather intimidating and confusing.
You might be wondering which site is best for you, and if you should bother paying for a membership or not.
You may even find that online dating isn’t right for you – if that’s the case, all the better to find out without investing much into the process.