They make the decision to hold that assumption hard and solid in their mind and they act in the world accordingly.
These are all HUGE mistakes because: a) They show him that you are desperately needy for his approval.
b) They show him that you can’t handle your own emotions and blame him for your emotional responses.
c) You’re putting the control of your emotions in his hands – the only person that can TRULY address your emotional insecurities is YOU. You might even be thinking to yourself, “But if I do that, how will other people see me?
So here is the strategy that the most successful women use to get the guys they want: Even though they don’t know what the guy is thinking, they believe, with every fiber of their being, that the guy thinks they’re hot, wants to hook up with them, wants to date them.
There was a guy who seemed interested in me, but at the time I was pursuing another guy. him to like you, so you’re scrutinizing every element like it’s a little clue or suggestion as to whether or not he likes you. However, having more experience will help remove a lot of mystery about men. Well, most people typically have neutral opinions of others and usually spend more time thinking about what other people think of other people and decide what they will think about you, a magical thing happens: They very quickly fall in line with how you see yourself. I’m not kidding, this is a huge strategy to getting men to find you irresistibly attractive.