"She continued her relationship with that monster," her devastated brother said.Just three days later, on July 13, 2014, police found her dead in her flat in Liverpool.Take a deep breath, and take a step back, as you are the perfect target for a sociopath.
However, you’ve asked for a male perspective, so I feel compelled to educate you on a few points of male behavior, as well as the highly problematic nature of the situation in which you find yourself.
Relationships with significant age differences face serious obstacles from the very start, and even more so if the woman happens to be older than the man.
I was married once before, to a man five years my senior.
After 12 increasingly dreary years capped by a wrenching divorce, I couldn't imagine why women in my situation (childless divorcées) complained about the prospect of reentering single life. Wasn't finally having some laughs, romance, and excitement the way to take the "crisis" out of "midlife"?
Yet, I continue to be sucked back in after a few days sometimes weeks, because we want to see, be and love each other.