The fertility countdown ticks away constantly in the head of every 20-something-year-old girl, reminding her of the menopause, IVF and adoption.It doesn’t matter if she wants to have children or not – she can still hear the damn countdown.
Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it, and they’ll bring out a more youthful, vibrant side of you, says Lori Bizzoco, founder and executive editor of Cupids “He will see you as smarter and worldlier, so he’ll want to please you, not just physically but emotionally and intellectually,” she says.
“He’ll come up with creative date ideas that bring back romance and youth, and make you feel empowered and appreciated.”When you enter into a new relationship, it’s no secret you’re bringing former boyfriends along with you. “Men can have preconceived notions about women and relationships based on past experiences,” says Samantha Daniels, a professional matchmaker and president of Samantha's Table Matchmaking.
She’s wary of the responsibility and commitment of having a child. She’s 29 and he’s 34, and he wants to have children before he gets to 40.
More pressing is that they live in Asbury Park — a four-hour round trip every day.
“But that might mean doing those things not together, which is really sad.” Lauren is part of a growing cohort of women: those in their late 20s and early 30s who aren’t sure about — or are decidedly against — becoming mothers.