John Piper is founder and teacher of desiring and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary. Then he says that “I will sit in this darkness under the Lord’s displeasure until he pleads my cause and executes judgment for me.” Not against me — for me. I shall look upon his vindication.” That’s amazing. He says, “I am under the Lord’s dark judgment, and I still trust him to be my God and vindicate me.
We are all free to make up whatever dating preferences we want.
They are called personal preferences for a reason and we don’t need the approval of anyone else when it comes to what we like.
While the age of the child plays a factor, if you’re not looking for anything serious, you shouldn’t play the “I’ll figure it out” game with a ready-made family.
Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.
But when deciding to date a woman with a child, you should be clear about your expectations for the relationship upfront with yourself and her.