Now, three and a half years after we first met, he is still the first thought that crosses my mind when I wake and the last thought I take with me to bed.
In January 2013, the boy and I made the decision to see each other, and only each another.
The bond that began as a steadily-built friendship grew into a quick-blossoming romance. In December 2014, after a tumultuous, euphoric-when-it-was-good-but-miserable-when-it-was-bad, on-again-off-again romance, I ended it with the boy — not because I no longer loved him, but because I was afraid of just how much I did.
First of all, attraction is hard-wired into both men and women.
For us men, it’s very simple – we like women that appear beautiful to us.
What they observed is that anxiously attached individuals are naturally pessimistic about their chances of finding someone else.