Today’s savvy gay man knows dating is more art than science and that the only path toward love is through authenticity and connection.What this means is the keys to dating success lie in being unapologetically ourselves, showing up in our lives and relationships, expressing our true selves and living our lives with purpose, passion and truth.
Or because you live in small town where everyone knows each other? Just because a date has been arranged does not mean that you have a ready-made relationship.
Possibly you don’t have the confidence to chat to strangers in a bar. The point is, you probably joined because it’s way of meeting new people. Whether it’s being stood up (yes this actually happened to me…twice! Make the most of it and if they don’t quite fit the bill for you then click ‘Next’.
This will give you a solid foundation going before a relationship enters the picture.
This way you won’t solely define your identity by a relationship and become dependent, and you’ll have a more whole and fulfilling life to create balance.
It also involves understanding and honoring social etiquette and learning to treat ourselves and our fellow single gay comrades with respect and compassion. This will ensure that you are both physically and emotionally available for a love relationship when it shows up in your life.